Good questions. You will actually stand out as a female in that industry, as the Indian IT pool is 99% male. It would actually be better if you were employed when you apply and interview. Being unemployed, while not uncommon in this environment, might raise questions about your motivation for b-school and general drive/ambition. Definitely do the Duke early admit offer if you can get your application done in time--they will give preferrential treatment to you as long as you promise to go there if offered a seat. Hope this helps.

Thanks a lot Bryant!
And yes you were definitely helpful !

-syr